I was on a treadmill next to my soul sister, warming up for our weekly workout when she said, “I have something to share with you. You know - when you first met Ricardo, I was really happy for you. But I was also jealous. And I've been jealous ever since. And I think I'm ready to let go of that jealousy.”
I was speechless. Hearing about her jealousy was shocking to me! But it also made sense, because I knew that she is also looking for love and belonging in the world. And while I thought that my love for her and presence was enough… on a deeper level, we both know that a lover and partnership is a void that can only be filled by just that.
It's interesting how jealousy gets a bad wrap in the world. It creates an unseen barrier between siblings, friends and lovers. But if you could REFRAME that sensation, you can change your life.
“Jealousy is, at its core, a compass that points to all of your deepest desires and dreams. It shows us the parts of ourselves that feel inadequate or incapable - but if we use it for fuel instead of poison, it can lead us RIGHT to our desires.”
And so the healing began.
I thanked her for her bravery & willingness to share with me. And we talked through her current desires and called it in together with visualizations, prayers, and encouragement from one another. Most importantly, I felt closer to her than ever before, knowing that I could trust her words to be true. It was sad to me that she could be navigating these feelings for almost a year… But we came out of this conversation (and workout) feeling so much lighter and connected.
This was all possible due to Radiance Training and the foundation that we've built our friendship on: radical commitment to truth within our SELVES.
If you're a sister who is seeking profound connection & growth, know that all of you is welcome in Radiance Training. It's only in vulnerable safety that we can authentically celebrate every woman's joy, fear, doubts, desires and yes - your jealousy - so we can co-create a world of empowered, vibrant women.
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t's not too late to get in on this sisterhood and personal growth.
The next round of Radiance Training is coming and applications are now open!
If you're ready to dive into this work and are interested, please reach out.
Because it's time for you to live a life that's SO GOOD IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.
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